Il Mare. Or how changing choices create reality.

July 30, 2010

“Il Mare” is a good example of how our choices create reality.  This Korean movie portrays beautifully different potentials based on different levels of awareness of the main characters. The story is the following:

The present (1998) Sung-hyun (male) communicate with the future (2000) Eun-joo (female). Her future self is more aware than the present (1998) about what she really wants in life.

The present Eun-joo is in love with another man.  She chooses the potential to marry him.  Therefore there is no time and space to start something with Sung-hyun.  After she finds out that he has an affair while working abroad, she has a hard time.  But it is through this break-up experience that she opens up to Sung-hyun.  Her future self start communicating with his present self. They develop a deep friendship which could turn into a relationship if they both choose so.  Sung-hyun present self is clear about his choice, he wants to meet Eun-joo in the future.  They have a date one week ahead of Eun-joo future self. He does not show.

Eun-joo is disappointed. But she herself turns out to be the reason why he did not show.  After the appointment with Sung-hyun, she meets the other man again. She still clings to the old potential of them getting married.  A potential that once upon a time looked very promising but has no real future because of all that happened.  That’s why her future self asks Sung-hyun to interfere in the past and prevent the other man from leaving aboard.  After a big inner struggle, Sung-hyun respects her choice.  But while he tries to make the other man change his mind, he is hit by a car and dies.  That’s why he did not show up.

When Eun-joo finds out, this tragic experience opens up her awareness a little more. She clearly sees and chooses now the potential of a relationship with Sung-hyun. But is it to late?  Did she discover her deep love for him to late to make the relationship a reality?  Her future self hurries to let him know her feelings and she cancels her request to interfere in the past.

The movie ends with a changed reality. Sung-hyun did not try to interfere, he did not die and they finally meet face to face.

The movie is an artistic depiction of wisdom about day-to-day life. The reality we live in is indeed of our own choosing. Choices evolve because awareness expand. Awareness expands because experiences we go through.

Difficult experiences (broken heart, death of a loved one, …) are only “difficult” because it’s hard to let go. We cling to old believes and expectations because they are so comfortable and familiar.  Difficult experiences are in fact hidden blessings. They help us to open up.  They are telling us that the potentials we chose in the past, are not valid any longer.

Open up and be aware of all the other beautiful potentials out there. Potentials you never could imagine.  Potentials your future self will prefer better than the old ones.

So let’s open up!  Let’s evolve. Let’s create reality upon reality, more and more true to our deepest choosing. Let’s be free.

PS: Apart from the story, the movie is worthwhile to watch for the beautiful cinematography and skillful acting. It’s my first encounter with Korean cinema and it will definitely not be my last. Here is the trailer:


Let’s shine …

October 6, 2009

Sun - light

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Let’s shine
strong and straight
like the sun

Ceaselessly emanating rays
nourishing  life

Not afraid
to burn others

They ‘ll find shadow
in the heat of the day



Why Obama.

September 28, 2008

Why Obama?

Copyrighted by Doug Mills/The New York Times

Ans never really was into politics, especially not into the politics of the USA.  All of this changed the first time he heard Obama speaking as a candidate for the presidency of the USA. He could feel that there was something different.  Obama is different. Expressing an energy the world is waiting for.  Politics on a higher level.  Politics as politics should be.

Talking about energy is difficult.  The only way to know is to feel.  Through the reader comments below and the picture above, both belonging to an article in the NY times, it is easy to feel the energy behind Obama.  Just take a deep breath, let go of all the worries and feel.

That feeling is Why Obama.

To heck with the dry cleaning. What matters is that Obama stood in the rain with us, his own shirt soaked through, inspired us with a powerful speech, and slogged in the mud to clasp hands with people who had waited all day to hear him. Look at the face of that young man in the picture. That was the emotion that I saw this evening at this rally. I was there. I am still soaked to the skin and my 55-year old feet will hurt for days from standing for six hours in mud. But how moving it was to be surrounded by Americans of all races and ages. . . especially the students who have been inspired and engaged by Obama. After years of feeling disenfranchised and discouraged myself, I am so excited by the prospect that we will soon have a president who believes in all of us and brings out our best nature. What I saw and heard tonight was not just the exuberance of college students at an historic event, but full-throated support of the idea that this is a country where we care about each other. These young people are registered to vote, enthusiastic about being involved in the process, and generous in spirit. Obama is exactly the right man to help them lead us into our future.

— Charlotte from Fredericksburg

I was there today, soaked through and muddy to my ankles, surrounded by people of many different ethnicities and ages. I’m a 44 year old mother of 3 who has always been an Independent; I’ve always voted the person. Barack Obama is more than just intelligent and insightful. There is something about him that inspires hope and the courage to take action. I am voting for him because he represents all the things I want my country to be for my children.

— loudounmom

Today’s heavy rains and light showers didn’t stop the publics support for Change. I was one of the 14 thousand Virginians denied access to the main area; nevertheless we 14 thousand: young, old, white,black, brown, gay, straight, poor, middle class and elites, packed like vienna sausage, didn’t complain. We had a ball – singing, dancing, laughing, and conversing in the rain with total strangers united for one common purpose: to embrace Barack Obama’s message of Change! Wow, that was GREAT!

— marlon

Wow, What a way to demonstrate it’s about the people and not Obama. ….. I wish I had been there as well.

— Vikki

Kudos to photographer Doug Mills of the Times. Love that pic. Would like to see it enlarged. That frame sums up Campaign 2008. We have not seen a candidate who can bring out such enthusiasm for many, many years. Barack gives us such hope and we need a downpour of it now.

— Felix

Oh, what a beautiful picture. Thank you, New York Times. You’ve captured the Obama campaign’s historic momentum and enthusiasm perfectly. I feel even more hopeful after seeing that picture than I did after last night’s debate, when I watched the commentary and realized that America saw what I saw last night: that graceful and dignified Barack Obama will be the next president of the United States!

— julie

Nice report, and what a great photo of people reaching out in the rain to shake Obama’s hand…what terrific symbolism, hands stretched out—there are rainbows in the camera lights, for goodness sake—you can’t make that up. Maybe that’s why even an old guy like me has begun to hope once again that we can reconnect with our highest ideals.

— Martin J

The picture speaks volumes! Beautiful, really.

Obama isn’t “the One” but he is aware of how much this country yearns to tap into our historic legacy. We are a nation of dreamers who like to imagine a better, more just and free people. The fact that he can channel this passion infuriates the petty haters. I must admit that I enjoy their rage and revel in watching a new generation learn to laugh at their anger.

Bubba Tex (yup, that Texas)
A “Hopeful” Republican for Obama

— Bubba Tex

That is one heck of a picture there – true joy in orange.

— Billy

I love it. I wish I was there. I don’t mind at all if it was for Obama. Here at home, I read and followed the news every minutes, hours…Definitely, after over 18 mths watching these 2 men marketting themselves, myself and my friends have come to the decision to vote for Obama. Obama has dignity and integrity. Of course no one is perfect. Of course he has his weakness. So do we. He cannot please everyone. But he would be the best person to fix this mess of the economy and the less respect for America issue from the world. Mr Mc Cain cn run for president again but not at this time.

— amt7799@msn.com

What a genuine great guy! He so inspires and impresses…Last night he was everything in that debate we need him to be. He wasn’t bullied into responding in like and stayed above the fray, almost like he was destined to be here at this time and place. I am so thankful for his willingness to be a public servant and his family’s sacrifice to run for this highest office in our land. Ibid for Joe Biden…They both could have gained more wealth, power and status much easier elsewhere, but they were looking out for us – the little guy- We needed them on our side and they were specially crafted! We are so proud of them and their families and all that they will be for our country. God bless you all!

— GraceNeeded

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Bat temple and cave.

May 23, 2008

Every evening around 18.30 o’ clock, thousands and thousands of bats are leaving a cave behind the Bat temple, Wat Kao Song Pian, in Rachaburi, Thailand.

It is an amazing experience because they keep coming for over two hours. You will see in the movie that the rules for mass behavior apply as well. There are some ‘swings’ in the column of bats. They fly towards the sunset. Amazing nature.

Ans is testing the automatic blogging feature from his Flickr account. It seems like the youtube site is once again blocked by Thai authority. At least the mobile internet service from AIS does not allow him acces to the site.

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Wesak 2008, White elephants carrying Buddha relics.

May 20, 2008


Ans is testing direct blogging from his Youtube account.

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Balancing the light and the dark.

May 15, 2008

Balancing the light and the dark.

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Hakendover, most beautiful village of Flanders?

April 26, 2008

Hakendover, aerial photo 3

Hakendover is the little village where Ans grew up.  The village is well-known for the yearly horse procession on Easter Monday.

The village is now selected as one of the semifinalists to earn the title ‘Most beautiful village of Flanders’.  Flanders is the Flemish speaking region in Belgium.

If Hakendover makes it to the final, the village will be represented on the national Belgian television.  The 1220 inhabitants are proud at Hakendover.  It would be nice if you help them by voting on this website.  The site is in Dutch.  But no worries, voting in the semifinal goes in three easy steps:

1. Click on “Stem nu!” in the pink box.
2. Fill in your name, surname and email, select “nee” and click on “stem” in the green box.
3. Click on the link “Klik hier” in the email you receive to confirm your vote.

Voting is open till wednesday 30/04/2008 noon.  It is easy to follow the score on the mainpage.

You are always welcome to discover Hakendover for yourself.  People who live to far away get a better impression through these pictures and a slidshow Ans made in 2006.

Update: Hakendover lost the semi finals.  Anyway, thanks to everybody who voted for our little village.

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Transformation.

March 28, 2008

In this blog, Ans wants to share  the transformation process of two caterpillars into butterflies.  The caterpillars were eating the leaves of the plants on his terrace and transformed themselves already into a golden and a black cocoon.  The transformation he witnesses on his terrace is timely and a good symbol for his own transformation process.   The black cocoon symbolizes the dark parts of his soul and the golden cocoon is a symbol for the light parts of his soul.  Both of them will transform into a beautiful butterfly.  That means that all of our aspects, the dark included, are important to become a truly beautiful human being. Isn’t nature just amazing?

27 – 3 – 2008:

Transformation ~black cocoon. Transformation ~ golden cocoon.

29 – 3 – 2008:

Transformation ~ black cocoon 2 Transformation ~ golden cocoon 2

5 – 4 – 2008:

Transformation ~ cocoon golden 3 Transformation ~ cocoon black 3

9 – 4 – 2008:

black cocoon 4 golden cocoon 4

There appears a hole in the golden cocoon. It seems like the butterflies left their cocoons through the little hole.  Flying towards freedom.

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Unfolding.

December 17, 2007

leaf ~ unfolding 2

~ The delicate process of the unfolding of a leaf. ~

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Opening up!

December 8, 2007

Closed dark, open light.

Closed bud waiting patiently in the dark,
open lotus shining bright in the light.

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